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5 reasons why Women Accept Cheating husbands

cryptogrindPosted for Everyone to comment on, 5 years ago3 min read

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5 reasons why Women Accept Cheating husbands. .....

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women are noted for hanging on to a marriage even when it is obvious that the marriage has failed, in this post we are going to be exploring 5 of the reasons why they do this, now, before we get into the post a bit of a disclaimer, the list is based on a subjective view and it is not at all to be taken as science, so, with that out of the way, let us get into it

  1. She doesn’t want to be alone.

The Fear of being alone keeps people in all kinds of horriblemarriages, we all know this, that fear of being alone is like a rope around a lot of women’s neck and they will put up with a lot in other not to be alone, a lot of women live in fear of losing their husband to woman, it doesn’t help your self confidence

  1. Her finances take a hit.

“Women’s greatest fear is they’ll become poor or struggle with finance, in their minds living their partner would lead to a life of poverty. There is some truth to this if we are being honest, especially within the context, within the society the man often controls the fimily finances and there are no legal protections for the women as they have abroad even when they have children together, typically a wife’s standard of living drops by a good 50-60% after seperation

  1. He’s not perfect.

having an affair is not necessarily a reason for a marriage to break up, in fact, it is rarely a reason for a marriage to break up, there is a general acceptance by the woman that their partners are likely to cheat, “all men are the same”, is the general phrase often use to surrender, “he is not perfect”, they would add

It is very easy to have all sorts of ideals when you are young and single but as people marry, live, age and grow together, they recognize that they have to give up the dreams of the perfect spouse.
There is often an inbuilt safeguard for disappointment in the marriages especially amongst women, there is always a part of the woman that prepares herself for the possibility of her husband cheating

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  1. Her professional status is tied to his.

Many educated women still put their careers second, behind their husband's.

If you are the wife of a VIP, leaving that relationship may close doors professionally. “A wife can lose her status because of divorce,” “If you were a politician's wife for instance , maybe you are the wife of a governor or president, your professional status or your opportunities are directly tied to your husband's status .”

Otherwise, you’re just his ex-wife.

  1. She’ll lose friends.

A divorcing wife risks breaking up her social circle as well, especially if that social circle is tied to her marriage or if they mainly mix with other couples, it is a sad fact of life that A solo woman is considered a threat to the stability of other relationships and married friends so people often pull away from a divorced woman, especially their couples circle of friends.

“If you live in a community where marriage is celebrated and single women are shunned, you can very quickly become an outcast, other women dont like to have single women around their husbands especially if the single woman is attractive.

Cryptogrind.... [ The Beast No 13]

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