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Anecdote | English Version | My life as a Family Head

rdsmasPosted for Everyone to comment on, 5 years ago5 min read

Recently my grandfather "Chente" Velásquez died in Margarita Island (Nueva Esparta, Venezuela), he was 70 years old married to my grandmother Porfiria Valerio, my father had 3 marriages, 2 of them, with more than 20 years with their partner In turn, as you can see, I come from a family of long marriages, or expires in the medium-long term, mine already goes for 11 years in December.

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I got married and my wife is called Daysis Suleiman, who was my university professor, my co-worker, who forced me to mature and who has supported me all these years, going through so many things, that I will tell you in another series of anecdotes later. How we fell in love was strange, of those things that happen without planning it and end up being perfect. It turns out that Daysis was my work colleague and at the same time my professor in the university career that I was studying, and always, as we lived on the same route, she took me to my house in her malibú 79, and in that way, as of 9 blocks of road, we talked about the university career, the employers, life, intergalactic constellations, in short, everything and nothing in particular.

One afternoon that for some reason there was no academic session, after the customary ride, when I went to say goodbye to the girl with the messy hair and the leather jacket despite the San Carlos heat, She stole a kiss from me, it was curious and shocking, it was innocent and naughty at the same time, then before I even closed the car door he left and I stayed there in the middle of the street, half a block from my house, thinking what happened there?

From that point, everything was confusing and accelerated, we talked a lot by messenger, there were no qwerty keyboards, so texting manually was exhausting, but I kept doing it, day by day. Then came the typical phase of visits to his house to "talk" about work, nobody suspected me, because I was younger than Daysis and why really in the eyes of the world we were like spies infiltrated at a gala party, undetectable.

A couple of outings with the family of Daysis and the expected night after the trip to the beach, where I was allowed to sleep in the house where she lived, but that if, in a kind of lattice room, as good boyfriends, we had to wait all go to sleep to be able to kiss us in my chastity cell. After that, I strangely started working on Daysis in a small cybercafe on his property, and it was the perfect place to see us when nobody saw us. Already the visit of Dona Margarita's slender boy (So they say to my mom), began to generate suspicion in the family environment of her, but given the strong character of my current wife, nobody dared to ask her anything about the matter.

Meanwhile, in our academic and work environment, nobody even suspected, which speaks very well of our own confidentiality capacity, it was funny to hear how other students or colleagues talked to me about Daysis and I urged them to fall in love to see "what I left ", years later, I found out that she did the same with the classmates. Our hidden love remained secret for more than a year, until one day ...

In December of 2017 we bought a full travel package and went on our honeymoon to Mochima (Sucre, Venezuela), after a boat trip and in front of the white sands of Playa Manare, we got married to the sea as our marriage judge and witness of the wedding. When we return, we join both families in a dinner and we formalize before our families our union, I could swear that the next night with the lonely house, We made our son Sebastían, it's funny, a dream weekend, full team with all payment and we ended up ordering the package to the stork at home.

Months later, on August 21, 2018 with the complicity of my friend Jhonner and Janeth the secretariat of our work, we protocolized before the municipal registry, escaped as escapists during office hours, so we have two anniversary dates: metaphysics and secular. At 19 days, on 09/09/2008 at 6:30 AM, Sebastián Hernández was born with a scream that echoed throughout the Coromoto Clinic (San Carlos, Cojedes) and there my family circle was completed and I became a Head of this little village of its own, the tribe of "the Daysis" as we joke to refer to ourselves, as if we were a matriarchy.

Eleven years of adapting to each other, to enjoy / suffer, to err / learn, to accept / negotiate, it is not easy to be a husband, much less to be a father, but if it is, a unique, unrepeatable experience that makes us full humans , my son will take the seed of my name and the equation of our genes to another family to form his own mini village and become the other head of the universe family.

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