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This or That? All Laid Bare.

olawaliumPosted for Everyone to comment on, 5 months ago5 min read

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All work and no play make Jack a dull boy, right? All seriousness and no humour might make everything boring too, right? So, I saw this on a friend's post and I told her I would be doing this too. I don't know who started this but it's fun. It's another way people can get to know us and our preferences which is why I decided to participate in this. We all have preferences, we all have dos and don'ts and sometimes we don't even know what we want, because it's not about the attributes sometimes but it's about the person.

Let's get down to brass tacks, shall we?

Taller or Shorter?

I don't know if I am being weird but on this, I have no preference. I've dated tell people and I've dated short ones and for me, it's never about the height but about the person. If I can 'vibe' with you, your height is inconsequential to me. I've never been ashamed to walk alongside short people and I'm average in height myself.

I always taunt short people. They are easy to taunt as I always remind them that people like them come in SHORT supply. They are also very DOWN to earth 🤣🤣😂...you see what I did there? I always taunt the taller ones too. I am always wary of tall people because they are 'closer' to God. Who knows what they might whisper into God's ears?!.

Talkative or Quiet.

I am not the talkative type because I love peace and quietness but I've heard that the opposite attracts. Even though I've never been the talkative type but I enjoy listening to others talk. I love listening and I can listen to you all day in my quietness, so I would say that I prefer someone who talks but there should be moderation to it.

Opposite or Same Sex.

Come on... As much as I enjoy my friends which are guys, most of my friends are females, so, the opposite sex it is. You know I envy the ladies because there are some things they can do with each other and no one would read any meaning to it. Imagine a guy slapping my bum bum all because we are playing, ah... I would run away but ladies can get away with it when they do that to each other.


Short or Long Hair.

I think it depends on what fits the person in question. As for me, I've never had long hair and I think this question is more suited to foreigners. I've always had short hair but I can help but imagine what it would be like to have long hair. I think I prefer my hair the way it is but I love seeing ladies with long hair or weave or fringes too.

Western or Asian.

This is direct and straight to me... I can't pick. I've had friends from basically major part of the world and as I said, it depends on the person and the connection. Going with both in this instance.

Bad or Cute.

I don't understand the meaning of the bad in question here but give me cute any time and any day... No questions asked.

Sports or Music.

This is a tough one because music has its place and my sports has its... Let me just stick to sports then... I can still hear music a bit in sports. 😂🤣🤣

Hot or Nerd.

I want a combination of both. I want beauty with brains...so I am Oliver twist, I want both. Don't just be hot, challenge my thinking.

Older or Younger.

I once dated someone older than me before and I had no issue with it. She wanted it too but she was more concerned about what people would say. Younger is fun but not too young to be called child abuse...Nah. I think I want a mixture of both in this case.

Go Out or Stay In.

If you asked me to go out, I am the type that would give you a thousand reasons why I would love to stay in... Staying in it is.

Movies or Karaoke.

I heard Karaoke is fun but I've never tried it. I would stick to my movies because I love thinking while watching movies. I like those theories that I cook up in my head on how it might end and the suspense gets me interested.

...to be continued...

This post also appeared here and it's my original work on my blog on Read.Cash.

Thank you for your time.

My pen doesn't bleed, it speaks, with speed and ease.

Still me,

My tongue is like the pen of a ready writer.

Olawalium; (Love's chemical content, in human form). Take a dose today: doctor's order.

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